Spending quality family time together is very important
A strong family finds that opportunities for quality time emerge from quantity time: The more time you spend together, the better chance you have of sharing quality experiences.
A strong family finds that opportunities for quality time
emerge from quantity time: The more time you spend together, the better
chance you have of sharing quality experiences. Eating meals together,
talking about the events of the day, sharing joys and defeats, doing
household chores together and spending some evenings popping corn and
watching movies are examples of shared activities. Some families even
schedule one evening every week for special family activities.
Doing things a child or spouse wants to do also sends a strong
message of love. It’s a good idea to identify the things family members
want to do together. In my family, we spend our summers showing goats
together. Every weekend we pack up the coolers, show equipment, children
and goats, and we head to the next show.
Children will not forget meaningful one-on-one time
How much time should families spend together? That varies from family
to family. Families with young children usually spend the most time
together because young children need a great deal of physical care and
guidance. Families with teenagers may spend less time together because
teens naturally want to spend more time with their friends. Single
parents need a break from their children and may need more opportunity
to enjoy the company of other adults.
Healthy families keep a good balance between “too much” and “not
enough” time together. They spend enough time to satisfy all family
members. Children learn to bring balance to their lives when they see
their parents setting aside time for what they value.
Where should you start if you’re not spending enough time with your children?
Start with the family meal. “A family that dines together stays
together” is a phrase that I have heard for years. Having a meal with
your children away from distractions such as the TV, video games and
cell phones can help start those conversations that you would like to,
or need to have with your children.